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Sunday, August 24, 2025

Crows and feral cats abound... also update on surgery







The top pic is a close-up of our crows eating Cheetos... they really like Cheetos! The second is them finding their peanuts on front lawn. It was 2 for the longest, then 3, 4, and now 6-8 come by every morning and sometimes in the evening. We also put out apple slices and berries on occasion.

Funny thing is that our mailman also likes feral cats and crows. He came by and rang the doorbell for a package he was delivering last week and we got to talking. 

He was wondering why we no longer had water and dishes up front for the feral cats. Told him that an Animal Control guy had come around telling people in the neighborhood to not feed the ferals. So we put their water and dishes in the back yard where it is more private. Also have a "Wild-life Sanctuary" sign on the fence to our backyard.

He said that he also feeds the feral cats and crows - and once a lady stopped by his mail vehicle while he was doing this and thinks that perhaps she reported him - and that's why the man came around to the houses. I told him "doesn't matter... if something comes to my house hungry, I'm going to feed it." 

We also put out diatomaceous earth to help them avoid fleas and recently put up 'coyote rollers' on our fence to keep the coyotes out -to provide more sanctuary. Some people complain that feral animals get in their garbage, or cause them other problems. We've been here 40 years and have yet to have any complaints. Our kids and grandkids have watched generations of these critters (feral cats, raccoons, possums, box turtles, etc.) grow up. It's been a fascinating experience.

NOW for my eye surgery update:

Mohs surgery was last Thursday. The surgery was fast, waited about an hour for results, then told they got it on first shave/slice (?). Bandaged it up and went home. Didn't hurt... past the first few numbing jabs... but after - not at all. 

Friday morning I had to be at the surgery center for 7:45 am for eye plastic surgery. That's really early for me, but we did it. THAT was a lot more complicated than we'd thought. The place is similar to the surgery centers they use for colonoscopies.... lots of beds, lots of paperwork, lots of nurses... tons of questions and they hook you up to bp, oxygen, EKG's, etc. before putting in an IV catheter. Nurses were great. Had to wear a gown (which surprised me since I didn't wear one for the Mohs - just working on eye only). 

When I came out we were told that surgery went fine... although they called the doctor out of his next surgery to check my eye as it was bleeding more than they liked. He came out and checked... said it was fine... and expected. 

Anyway, I didn't see myself until we got in the mirrored elevator to go home. They don't bandage it... just leave a sewn in gauze bandage on the lower part. Eye is sewn shut.  Talk about ugly! Wow! My eye is purple, red, swollen, and sewed. DH said I looked like I was in a bar fight (still do... although the swelling has gone down and it's less purple now). I'd post a pic, but it's really too gross.

Here is a pic of me with the eye night guard that I wear only at night to protect it. Hides the ugly - and I'd wear it during the day but I have to ice my eye for 10 minutes every 30 minutes for 3 days... so not convenient to wear it.



Anyway, that's the update (probably TMI). I see the doctor for post-surgery appointment next Friday. He may want to take sutures out... but really hate that thought, don't want anyone touching it at this point. (It doesn't hurt... well, aches a bit, but not much... but the whole upper side of my face is sore - can't imagine taking those stitches out won't be painful). And yes, I'm a wus... 

Well, that's probably more than I intended to share. Sorry. Sometimes it helps to write it out.




Hugs (virtual),

Rian



26 comments:

  1. Very much enjoyed reading about the postman, crows and feral cats. Good for you for still taking care of them. I'm also very glad to see you here Rian, been wondering a lot how you were doing. The eye surgery sounds daunting but you sound so strong and upfront about it. I really liked that photo too. Thanks for taking the time and effort to share with your readers and your friends.

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    1. Dug, it's amazing how your body adapts. Thought having my eye stitched closed would scare me... a bit claustrophobic I guess. It does mess up my perception... when pouring a glass of milk - I missed the glass! My photo wasn't good... but definitely better than seeing my gross eye. Hoping and praying that your leg and foot pain just disappear.

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  2. We feed the hungry too. And continue. Love your crows. They know good people.
    I hope your poor eye heals quickly. And love that final image. Thank you.

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    1. I thought that last image was appropriate. I can see why you would feel the same, EC.

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  3. I think life is asking too much of YOU at the moment! 💕

    I'm glad the surgeries went well. I can assure you that I'd be a FAR bigger "wuss," as you put it. I think you're very brave, actually!

    Sending lots of healing vibes, and I'm delighted that your mailman is another kind soul. The world needs more compassion for All Beings right now.

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    1. Thanks, Kim. I do 'fight the fear' of all the 'what if's' that our minds create. But try to remind myself that the fear is usually worse than the actuality. Thanks for the healing vibes. Archangel Raphael is the angel of healing, I pray to him. Raphael means "God heals". And yes, you are right that the world is really in dire need of more compassion for all beings right now.

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  4. I am so glad to learn that it's now mostly all behind you. It's no fun at all, but I was so pleased to find how you are now past the worst of it. My fear was the hardest part, and it seems I am not alone. I didn't need all that stuff you went through but I thank you profusely for all the details. And I look forward to hearing that you will soon be done with it, too. My stitches are all that's left of mine. Sending you healing hugs and vibes, dear friend. Love the update on the crows.

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    1. DJan, thanks for the healing hugs and vibes. The healing is all I hope is left and that my lower eyelid will end up looking fairly normal (actually anything better than it looks now would work). I see the plastic surgeon doctor this coming Friday. I wish he had used dissolvable stitches, but I think not...

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  5. I’ve been hearing more about people and eye treatments and eye surgery lately. You’re a brave one! ( well I suppose you don’t have a whole lot of choice).
    My sister is one to care for all kinds of critters, too. She discovered that when a feral cat is caught and spayed, they clip a little tip of their ear off so they know she’s already been done. Do they do that where you live, too? - Jenn

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    1. Yes, they do, Jenn... a clipped ear usually means they've been spayed or neutered. And as for the eye thing, I'm definitely not brave (although I 'try' to be).

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  6. i have been thinking about you and wondering how things are going. you are getting closer to the finish line with this ordeal. i feed the birds and a lot of people think you should not. i don't really care what other people think. you are a kind soul!! have a great week!!

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    1. This is strange, Debbie. I replied to all these next comments already, but they didn't post?? Anyway, I think I said that I know that many people don't like feeding the birds or the ferals... and some have legitimate reasons, some not. But I think we have to go with what we think is right.

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  7. I think you are brave and strong! What a mess you have been through with your eye. It sounds like you are on the final steps - and good for you! Glad they got it in one "slice"!

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    1. Hi Miss Merry. I thought I already replied to this, but maybe it's me or maybe it's Blogger acting strange. Anyway, I'm not really brave or strong... but we do what we have to do, right?

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  8. I'm sorry you had to go through
    eye surgery. I don't think your a wus!
    Eye surgery is scary.
    I also feed birds, squirrels,deer and bunnies. I feed the birds intensionally.
    But I have an orchard and gardens.
    The other critters help themselves.
    Whether I like it or not.
    I buy food for the food bank too.
    The world needs more people
    being kind. There is too much
    Greed and selfishness in the modern world. Bless you for your kind soul.

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    1. Thanks, Savannah. Again I replied to this earlier, don't know why it doesn't show up. But I'm glad you feed the critters, intentionally and otherwise. And I agree that more people should 'care'...

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  9. Wow, that's quite the experience. I hope you eye heals quickly and the stitch removal is painless.
    I'm glad you were able to continue feeding the ferals and keep them relatively safe in your yard.
    The crows, I tend to think of as pests but they do have a place.

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    1. Actually Mae, many people think that even the ferals are pests... but to be honest, IMO, it's generally just a small inconvenience to be kind. And there are times when other things do come into consideration. I understand that.

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  10. Here's my share of healing vibes...they work too, I've been told. Like magnetic or electric fields of energy...soothing not only the injured tissues but the emotional worries. Soothe. A word that should just erase the word worry.

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    1. Barbara, thanks so much for your healing vibes! I do believe that thoughts and prayers are powerful... and I really appreciate your thinking of me.

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  11. Oh my goodness, you sound very brave to me. It's hard to imagine having any kind of cutting done on the eye. It is amazing what doctors can do these days. I am glad your surgery is over and went well and now you can get well. Thank you for feeding all the little animals. When I go through the checkout line at Walmart, I usually have more cans and bags of cat, dog, and bird feed than I have for us. I've said many times that if I would quit feeding animals, I might could buy some new clothes. :)

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    1. Henny, thanks for the kind comments. This 'eye thing' has been an ordeal, but it's just a matter of healing now (or I hope so anyway). We also have so much for the ferals when we go through the checkout at Walmart... catfood, peanuts, Cheetos, etc. We once had a person ask us about it all and when we told them it was for the ferals, they insisted on donating $20 to help. We tried to refuse, but they insisted. There are good people out there.

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  12. You look just fine for everything that was done. A bit like a target. So, I'd avoid bars that have those dart game targets hanging on the wall. Hang in there. Linda in Kansas

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    1. Thanks, DM. Don't think I'll be going into any bars any time soon...

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  13. Good to know the surgery went well. You are just about out of the woods now.

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    1. I thought so too... but learned today that it has to stay stitched shut for a month to heal. And then the stitches will have to be surgically removed under anesthesia. Guess it takes longer than I thought to heal.

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