A walk around our house...

Nothing interesting to post today, so I thought I'd take a walk around the house...

(Rose)  "Please let me nap..."

(Ghost) "What DO you want??"

(Julie)  "my mouse..."

(Molly in sock drawer) "How'd you find me?"

(Tux) "oh, she's good..."

My friend and I in New Orleans email each other fairly often. Lately we've begun sending silly "Selfies"... and believe me, at our age.... they're pretty silly... silly seventy selfies. People who do these things generally have too much time on their hands. Well, we do have time on our hands.... but I doubt if it's *too much*.

Here's the one I just sent her:

whoops! Did I take that?

Have any silly selfies you'd like to share?

Traditionalists or Baby Boomers?

My brother-in-law was here this past week and he got to talking about the generations. Apparently he had heard a talk recently where they described the different generations from the Traditionalists to the Baby Boomers to Generation X (Baby Busters) to the Millennials (or Generation Y). This is some of the info he passed on to me.

I know there are books about this, but I haven't read any. However, it is interesting. Since we were born in the summer of 1945, DH and I actually fall right between the Traditionalists and the Baby Boomers. And as we were infants in 1945, we consider ourselves Baby Boomers since we really grew up during that period... (1946 - 1964) graduating from high school and starting college in 1963-64.

The following information shows the events and experiences that formed these groups... as well as the characteristics that became a part of each. 

I found it interesting reading. Thought you might also.

Find your generation:

1. Traditionalist – Born 1922-1945

2. Baby Boomers – Born 1946-1964

3. Generation X or Baby Busters – Born 1965-1979

4. Millennial or Generation Y – Born 1980-2000

Events and Experiences of Traditionalists: (1922 - 1945)

Great Depression

New Deal

World War II

Korean War

Events and Experiences of Baby Boomers : (1946 - 1964)

Civil rights

Sexual Revolution

Beatles 
Cold War

Nuclear Bomb Drill in School

Space travel

Assassinations

Events and Experiences of Gen Xer’s: (1965 - 1979)

Fall of Berlin Wall

Watergate

Women’s liberation

Desert Storm

Energy crisis

Events and Experiences of the Millennials: (1980 - 2000)

Oklahoma City Bombing

Bill and Monica

Columbine Shooting

September 11, 2001

Technology

Child Focused World

Characteristics of Traditionalists: (1922 - 1945)

Resourceful Savers
Pay With Cash

Communication 
Face to Face
Handshake

Family Traditional 
Nuclear

Hard Work Obligation 
Duty Before Pleasure
Survival Mode

Characteristics of Baby Boomers: (1946 - 1964)

Driven

Wealthiest Generation

Competitive

Work Hard-Earn Reward

Communication

Call Me Anytime

Television Generation

Information Delivered

Justice for All

Civil Rights

Opportunity

Life is an Adventure

Time to Ponder

Possibility

Characteristics of Generation X: (1965 - 1979)

Adaptable

Grew with Technology

Service Economy Accepting

Ambitious

Over 60% Attended College

Achieve 'On Their Own Terms'

Flexible

Cherish Time with Family, Friends

Don’t Like Structure

Hands Off

Independent

Values Freedom

Self Sufficient

Responsibility

Less Team Oriented

Fun!!

Characteristics of Millennials: (1980 - 2000)

Achievement Oriented

Pampered by Parents

Confident

High Expectations

Question Authority

Connected

Daily, Instant

Tweets, Blogs, Facebook

Smart Phones

Diverse

Merged Families

Most Accepting Group

Family Centric

Work/Life Balance

Flexible Schedules

Tech Savvy * (first digital natives)

Attention Craving

Feedback

Guidance

Praise

Team Oriented

No Child Left Behind

Seek Input 

As I go back and read through these, I tend to look for the characteristics that stand out in DH and I,  our children, and grandchildren. Not all experiences and characteristics stand out in every person of each generation, but certain ones seem clear. 

For DH and myself (Baby Boomers), growing up in the South (New Orleans) civil rights was a prominent issue. I remember the Beatles (although personally I was more an Elvis fan), duck and cover practiced in the classroom, the space program, and the assassination of Kennedy.

We believed in a healthy work ethic, remember the first TV's, and believed that life was an adventure (still do).

Our kids (Gen X) experienced dessert storm and grew up with technology.They all went to college, and achieved on their own terms.

Now our grandkids (Millennials) experienced the bombings, shootings, and 9/11.  They are pampered, definitely 'connected', and tech savy (digital natives).

It's 2015 now and the next generation (2001 - ?) is here... and on their way to adulthood. What experiences and characteristics will they hold. Technology is continuing to explode. Communication is all powerful. School shootings, ISIS, and climate change seem to take top news these days. How will history document this generation? I wonder...  

Molly's mulberry days are here...

Molly stares for long periods of time...

Our Molly (22 years old) is starting her decline these last 2 weeks. Up until just recently she was doing fine. She has been sleeping a lot, but has kept a good appetite and always used her litter box without fail... still purrs when you pet her, and although she has been losing weight, we didn't  find this unusual for her age.

But now she has pretty much stopped eating... not completely... she will eat a little on occasion, but in general doesn't seem interested in food. She stares into space for long periods... and sometimes stops when she walking somewhere and just stands there... like she forgot where she was going. Yesterday I found her sleeping in her litter box? She'd never done that before. So I picked her up and put her on her blanket on the sofa. 

And last night we decided to put her in the upstairs bathroom (we call it 'the convalescent room' because we only use it now when one of the cats needs to be contained). This way she could have her bed, food, water, and litter box all close at hand during the night. 

She did fine. It was obvious that she had eaten her food and used her litter box during the night... and was glad to see me when I took her down this morning to be with the other cats.

row of cats on bed... Molly on far right

Molly is again the one on the far right - cuddled up with Thibs who left us at 19 + a few years ago

It's so hard to know what to do... and when to do it. We've always felt that as long as they seem comfortable, we let them be... catering to their wants as best we can. If it looks like they're in pain, then we make the decision as to what may be the next step. Molly doesn't seem to be in pain... although when I tried to look in her mouth to check her color, she cried out.

I don't think she is in any condition to be anesthetized and running blood and urine tests at her age seems like unnecessary torture. So... we are playing it 'day by day'. Right now she is sleeping comfortably on our bed. We could bring her to the Vet and see if there's anything they could give her to make these days more comfortable (a tranquilizer/pain meds?). But even stressing her to take her might push her over the edge...

So this is where we are this week... waiting and watching.

Molly sleeping with Tux

at a loss for words...

This past weekend our 3 kids and their families put together a Surprise 70th Birthday Party for DH and I.  We were under the impression that we were going over to our son's house for a Bar-b-cue  -  but when we arrived, about 25 people yelled "SURPRISE!" ...   and we definitely were... surprised that is. We had no idea that they would do this as none of us have ever been the type to do surprises - or even to give parties. We generally celebrate low-key with just a family dinner or get-together.

After getting over the initial shock, it was great fun. The house and decorations looked lovely and there was an abundance of food and drink. The best part is that they actually took tons of family pictures.  I haven't seen the pictures yet, but hope to do so later this week. Once I get them, I will post a few.

It's hard to put into words what a lovely thing it was that they did... even though if they'd asked us if we wanted a party, we'd probably have said no (maybe they knew this and that's why the surprise?). But non-the-less, we love them for taking the time from their busy lives to put this together.  Although totally unexpected, it meant a great deal.

My daughter sent this collage she put together last night after they returned home to the Hill Country.

DH and I with grandkids


(youngest grand daughter kept bringing me her kitty... so that's what I have in my hand - upside down)

flag in the front, armadillo in the back

Pic taken when outside waiting for the 4th of July neighborhood parade yesterday!

armadillo in the backyard 

This little visitor came by Saturday morning. He was rooting around and Polly (one of the feral kittens) was fascinated. She was following him ... but not too close. This is what caught my attention. 

In the top picture, I actually walked almost right on top of him and he wasn't intimidated - just looked up at me.  We see lots of possums and raccoons in our yard (which is by a creek) and they they are very wary, so I was surprised at his boldness. But I took pictures and he eventually went off down the rabbit hole*.

While I was out there I decided to take some pics of our figs which are getting larger every day. Hopefully they will be ripe by next week.  We have 2 fig trees;  a Turkey fig and a Celeste. The Celeste are smaller and much sweeter. We generally leave the Turkey figs for the squirrels and mockingbirds... and pick the Celeste for ourselves and friends.

and we have a *Bay leaf tree* also.  It does wonderfully well and supplies us with plenty of fresh bay leaves for cooking.

Bay leaves

* I starred rabbit hole as many of you may not know what was meant by that. Well... there's a hole in our bushes which runs directly from our backyard down an incline into the lower yard which is next to the creek. This hole and path was made over the years by the critters that have used that path for the 30 years that we've lived here. My grand daughter when she was younger disappeared down that rabbit hole to check it out. She said it was "awe-some".

Have a good week!

July 4th, 2015

Rose taking a quiet moment... before the neighborhood 4th of July parade!

Happy 4th of July to All!!

Happy July 1st!!

Yesterday I was feeling strange.  I think I've reached a different stage in this journey into retirement. Wrote about it here if you're interested...