This blog is meant to be a documentation of our journey into the world of retirement. I know the title should be "Older, but wiser". However, I really didn't know if that would be accurate. The "Older, but better...?" title could also be misleading. The 5 cats in the above pics are: Molly, Rose, Tux, Julie, and Ghost. (I have tried to make this collage smaller, but with no luck...)
I haven't felt well this week. Don't know if its due to a bug, stress, or just plain ol' old age. For the last few days I have had my lower back ache, head ache, and have been extremely tired... so much so that I have spent the days taking Tylenol and sleeping. Luckily since we're retired, I have the both the time and the ability to do this. Although I'm feeling better today, I didn't have the energy to go to the pottery studio... just wasn't in me to get up and go. And since it's nasty, rainy, and cold, I'm better off here at home. This afternoon I decided to make a recipe that I've seen on cooking shows, but never tried. It didn't seem difficult... and wasn't. So tonight we're having Beef Stroganoff. I'll let you know how it turns out. I have to say that its made with either cream sherry or brandy and I had to taste both to decide which to use. Liked both, but chose the cream sherry. I wonder how it would taste with bourbon? I have cooked with bourbon before and it was very good... maybe next time. Well, the cookings done and now I'm ready for a nap. So I may possibly take a tiny bit of the cream sherry and grab a book... so much for my day.
Humph....
Oh well... Thanks for reading! And feel free to take a nap if the mood strikes you!
I see shade trees, small neatly kept houses, broken banquettes (this was what we call sidewalks), and a short winding street. I feel comfortable, very much at home. I like this neighborhood. People are friendly, no one is afraid. My house is next to the corner grocery. We're lucky. Mr. Sam, who is the Grocer, is our friend. He saves me little loaves of bread which he gives out as lagniappe. Lagniappe is "a little something extra", and is standard in New Orleans. Sometimes when I'm in the store, I eat a small red potato right out of the vegetable bin. Mr. Sam doesn't mind, and it smells and tastes fresh and musty..
I also visit in the back of the store where the Grocer and his son and daughter-in-law live with their two children. They have a kitchen, a living room, a dining area, and an upstairs where there are a few bedrooms. They also have a backyard adjoining ours.
Our house has a small wrought iron porch in front. From there you enter through a living room, and then a dining room, where there is a floor heater. I can feel it's warmth, and can smell the combination of gas and hot metal. It feels good. I like to dress over the floor heater and feel the warm air on my skin.
I can also smell cigars and taste fried chicken. It's a Sunday, and daddy is home, smoking his cigar and reading the paper while mama cooks. I feel secure and loved.
The kitchen is right after the dining room, and the den is behind that. The den runs the width of the house across the back. Daddy had it built on after he and Mama moved here. On the right side there are 3 bedrooms separated by one bathroom with a gas wall heater. My brother has the room next to the den for himself, and my older sister and I share the next room. We have a set of twin beds with Wagon wheel headboards. In the hall outside the bathroom is a table with a small round black metal phone.
Outside my parent's bedroom, which is the one in the front of the house, is a window box filled with succulents - some sort of cactus. I can see them clearly, and remember the feel of their soft fur-like leaves, that if broken open, have a strange fluid inside.
We have a car and a T.V. The year is 1950, and I'm 5.
I don't have to take naps anymore, but I never really minded them. In the summer when it's really hot and humid outside (and we don't have an air-conditioner, but we do have an attic fan), striping down to your undies and laying on clean sheets with one of those humming black metal fans cooling you is not exactly unpleasant.
Down the block is a China-berry tree. My friends and I pick the berries and throw them at each other. My best friend lives across the street. Her parents are not as nice as mine. They yell at her and make her eat when she doesn't want to. Sometimes she throws up.
I have another friend who lives on the opposite corner. She has 8 in her family. She and her twin brother are the youngest. She's very nice. So is her mama. We don't see her daddy much, and her older sister is mean, but I like to play at her house. It's very old, and very big; and her mama makes candy by boiling sugar. They have a great beast of a dog, tall and brown and hairy.
There's a drug-store about a block down from my friend's house. My friend and I go there. Sometimes they hold Yo-Yo contests outside on the street. Older kids hang out inside, so Mama doesn't like us to go .
There's a Taffy Wagon that comes down our street. It is white with red trim, with windows all around so you can see all the strings of taffy hanging inside. You can also see the man pulling the pink taffy and wrapping it in wax paper. The wagon is pulled by a large horse with a hat on with holes cut out for his ears. I think the taffy is 5 cents.
Only about 2 blocks down is St. Anthony's School and Church. It's close to Canal Street. This is the main street running into Downtown. Mama and I take the Streetcar to go Downtown. Mama always wears a hat and gloves, and I have to wear a dress. I don't like to shop, but eating lunch at Maison Blanche or D.H. Holmes is fun. I like Shrimp Rémoulade. And Mama always gets me a treat at the Dime Store before we catch the Streetcar home. Downtown smells like molasses. Mama says this is probably because of the Jackson Brewery in the French Quarter which is right off Canal Street and on the Mississippi River. The sound of the foghorns from the steamboats on the river echo in my ears.
Sometimes I play in our backyard on an old wheelbarrel turned upside down. The tire is my steering wheel and that wheelbarrel becomes my own private plane. Other times I cut out paperdolls from old Sears catalogs or play with plastic cowboys and Indians - the kind that had bowlegs that fit on the horses. When it rains the gravel and puddles become boulders and streams! I have a doll called "Tiny Tears". This is my favorite - although my brother takes it's arms and legs off on occasion. However, lucky for me (and Tiny Tears), they can be popped right back on!
My life is getting ready to change. School beacons. And even though the thought of going to school is exciting, something inside me doesn't want to go. I'm afraid, but don't know why.
Perhaps even at this tender age of 5, I fear the inevitable loss of my "freedom".
Sunday morning here. I really like Sunday mornings... not sure why. It could be that it's the one morning in the week that I don't have to do anything. You would think that now that we're retired every morning would be like that, wouldn't you? But even though 'the job' is no longer looming, there are things that still need doing, errands to run, projects to get done, etc. And since we're both 'morning people', we tend to try to get it done early... leaving the afternoon for that 'coverted nap' or possibly just sitting with a book and a cup of hot tea. It's taken me 66 years to have the time and freedom to do this and I'll defend my right to do this to the death (physically and literally). Weird, huh? I wonder if others feel this way? Or is it just me?
Some Sunday mornings we go for breakfast, but since we were out with friends last night, we won't do this today. Meeting old friends that one hasn't seen in a while is always fun. It's odd, we've all grown older and a little grayer but things fall in place like they always did, and it's like no time has passed at all. Magic.
BTW, I do believe in magic. It's one of those things that make me me. And even though I can't explain it, I know it exists (or maybe I should say that it exists if you choose to believe). People get so caught up with semantics. For me it's that feeling you get when you were a child on Christmas Eve (you could feel the magic in the air), or when you saw your baby smile for the first time... it's those moments where the universe shifts... and nothing is ever the same again.
Well, this can't be long today as I need to do some cooking a little later. We're grilling tonight and I promised to make some bread pudding with whiskey sauce for dessert.
